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Money and children: Teaching by age groups

Money and children: Teaching by age groups

March 31, 2021

If you haven’t shown your children how to handle their money, you’ve left them vulnerable to a lifetime of financial insecurity.

And when it comes to money and finances, exposure is everything.

According to a 2019 study by the Financial Industry Regulatory Authority (FINRA), Americans who have participated in a substantial amount of financial education are:

  • More likely to save.
  • Less likely to overdraw their checking accounts.

Nearly half of Americans (49 percent) who have received more than 10 hours of financial education report spending less than they earn, compared with 36 percent of those people who received less than 10 hours of financial education, FINRA found.1

Parents can insulate their kids from some of the biggest money management mistakes and build their financial literacy by talking openly about the value of money and the benefits of good financial decision-making.

“One of the most important things a parent can do is to have conversations about their financial decision-making at home,” said Nan Morrison, president and chief executive of the Council for Economic Education, in an interview.

To yield the biggest impact on kids’ money habits, however, the lessons imparted must be age appropriate.

Elementary school: Saving by example

Younger kids, for example, may not be ready for a lesson on compounded investment growth, but they can benefit greatly by watching their parents model good financial behavior.

“When you need new sheets and towels, explain that you’re waiting until January when the white sales happen and show them how much money you saved by doing that,” said Morrison. ”Make them realize that they can spend and save wisely. Let them learn by example.”

Also at this age, it’s important to demonstrate the value of money and sound money management.

That’s best done by giving them a dollar to purchase something at the mall, a yard sale, or at the movies. Let them see what they can get for a buck.

“Help them to understand that you cannot purchase something that costs more,” said Diane Pearson, a financial professional with Legend Financial Advisors near Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, in an interview.

Elementary school kids can also begin to set financial goals.

When they receive birthday money from Grandma, or an allowance, encourage them to save the cash for something bigger that they really want. (Related: Setting savings goals)

Show them how to compare prices at the grocery store and explain how different brands cost more for the same product.

Tell them you don’t want to go out for dinner midweek because you would rather save that money for a nicer family meal this weekend, or that it costs the equivalent of four movie tickets, said Morrison. Money management is about making choices.

Middle school: Money management

As your children mature, you can start letting them experiment with the money they earn through babysitting, shoveling snow, or an allowance.

Help them set up three accounts — one for their savings, one for spending money, and one (if you choose) for charity. And explain how interest works, Pearson suggested.

These are the years to help children establish good saving and spending habits, and to help them learn to control impulse buying.

If your child commits a money misstep, let him or her fall, said Morrison. That’s kind of the point.

Don’t give them money for ice cream with their friends, for example, if they already blew their allowance on something they wanted less.

To help close the knowledge gap, continue to build financial literacy, and reinforce the lessons learned at home, look for activities or public events that help build money awareness. (

For example, MassMutual developed a program called the FutureSmart Challenge. In conjunction with select NBA teams, MassMutual’s FutureSmart Challenge delivers interactive seminars to middle school students in a stadium setting. The seminars are designed to convey the importance of savings, career choices, staying in school and going to college, and the impact these have on their future financial goals.

Through the FutureSmart Challenge, MassMutual also collaborates with Junior Achievement affiliates, nonprofits that offer financial literacy programs to schools throughout the U.S., to extend financial education in the classrooms of the same students who attend the Challenge. To date, MassMutual has reached more than 2 million students through FutureSmart.

High school and college kids: Debt awareness

High school and college-age kids are ready for more sophisticated lessons in personal finance.

That includes debt. Many of the best and brightest graduates get themselves into financial hot water by spending money they don’t have and burying themselves in high interest credit card debt.

You can save your kids from a similar fate by explaining how interest rates work, and how those $300 designer sneakers cost much more if you pay with credit and make only the minimum monthly payments.

By paying $30 per month on a credit card that charges 18 percent interest, for example, that $300 would take 11 months to pay off and cost an additional $27 in interest, according to one credit card company’s calculator (… and make sure your kids run the numbers themselves).

Parents can also help their teens think beyond the purchase of their first car and develop a plan for staying debt free — especially as college kids near graduation.

“Help them to create a budget for future spending needs so they can understand how much of a salary they will need to cover those costs,” said Pearson.

Now is also the time to impress upon young adults the benefits of good financial choices — and the cost of poor decision-making.

Banks and other lenders rely on credit scores, a number that reflects your debt-to-income ratio and repayment history, to determine whether to issue borrowers a credit card or loans for a car or home mortgage. They also use it to determine what interest rate they should charge.

By making payments on time and keeping your debt to a minimum, consumers are far more likely to qualify for the most favorable, lowest interest loans.

Finally, there’s nothing like a lesson in compounded growth to motivate your adult children to save for their future.

A 30-year-old making $50,000, for example, who contributes 10 percent of her salary to a 401(k) would have amassed a total balance of $656,884 by the time she retired, assuming a hypothetical investment return of 7 percent pre-retirement. By waiting 10 more years to begin contributing, however, she would have amassed $289,375 by the time she retires, according to one retirement retirement planning tool.

Teaching kids to save has nothing to do with hedge funds and sophisticated investment products. At the end of the day, it’s merely about giving them the tools to become smart consumers, use debt wisely, and put money away for their future.

“You need to give kids a personal finance vocabulary so they have the confidence to ask the right questions,” said Morrison. “It’s very empowering for young people to understand that they can make good choices about money in their lives that can help their families and their futures.”

Provided by Shelly Gigante, courtesy of Massachusetts Mutual Life Insurance Company (MassMutual). 

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